Showing posts with label New Orleans. Show all posts
Showing posts with label New Orleans. Show all posts

Monday, August 26, 2013

Home is where...

Hello, old friends!

If you've spent any time with me in person lately, you've probably heard me mention (okay...probably whine about) having to switch my license and car tags to Georgia. I may or may not be slightly sentimentally attached to my home state, so it's been an interesting experience to give up the paper trail that connects me to it. But, the deed is done. (All it took was essentially daily texts from Mom "encouraging" me to get my butt to the DMV. Sorry for the foot-dragging, parents...) Madame Blueberry is officially a peach, and I've got the driver's license to match!

Considering the places I've lived since college, the past handful of years adds up to, more specifically, five states in four years. On one hand, this bouncing around has been a blessing. I've gotten to know some wonderful cities, and through their differences and similarities they and the people in them have allowed me to grow in my understanding of myself and of other people. On the other hand, I very much look forward to an eventual day when I can again have the chance to make more long-term connections to one geographical place.

These days it's awfully tricky to answer the question: "Where are you from?" I don't feel like it's totally honest to simply answer "North Carolina," seeing as it's been a while since I really lived there. But I also don't feel right simply saying "Georgia," because Decatur is still only a small part of my story. It usually goes something like this: "Well, I'm originally from Davidson, North Carolina (but I was born in Ohio). I went to school in South Carolina, and I also worked at a camp in western North Carolina. But then I lived in Nashville and New Orleans with a volunteer program. Now I'm in school near Atlanta."

North Carolina will always be home. But I will also feel at home in Greenville, in Nashville, and in New Orleans. After some time adjusting, I'm claiming Decatur too.

So what does "home" even mean, if I feel like all of these places are still holding little (or huge) parts of me?

Home is where your family is, whether that family is defined by blood, a summer camp, a school, or a volunteer program.
Home is where you can be challenged, and challenge some things yourself. 
Home is where you grow.
Home is where you sit at table with others.
Home is where you care and are cared for.
Home is where you have a favorite coffee shop.
Home is a noun, an adjective, an adverb, and a verb. (Really.)
Home is where you can make mistakes.
Home is where there are second chances.
Home is where you live.
Home is where you love.


So, friends, here's to having long answers to "where are you from?" And here's to finding homes wherever we go.

Love,
Allison.

I may claim more than one state these days, but...belated birthday present, anybody?

Tuesday, November 13, 2012

To Miss New Orleans

Hey friends.

So far this month, I've been making it a practice to journal daily about something for which I'm thankful.  (Super original activity for the month of November, right?) My list so far includes mostly people (and coffee), but I am also thankful for New Orleans.

Last year wasn't exactly the easiest year of my life. I've neglected to address some of the tougher parts here, if for nothing else than I am most comfortable being an outwardly optimistic person. (And hey, if I can't control much else in life, at least I can control what goes on my blog!) But despite the rough patches, I wouldn't trade my year in New Orleans (or my year in Nashville) for anything. And anyway, sometimes challenges are good (despite how much I might doubt that when they're happening).

It's been a big few days of processing. I don't know that I realized how much processing I had (or have) left to do...but I s'pose this is that gradual transition process they kept telling us about at Ghost Ranch. Last week I put one of my coats for the first time this season, and wouldn't you know it, in the pocket I found a plastic straw I'd caught at a Mardi Gras parade last year. This past weekend I helped paint a house with a few fellow CTS students, one of whom was a YAV last year here in Atlanta. Living in an apartment by myself, I've had more time to spend just with my thoughts. Any of these things and a host of others could've spurred the turning of my mental wheels, I suppose. But this is a good thing. In a kind of unexpected wave, I am making peace with the difficult parts of last year, and wholeheartedly embracing my fond memories of the good ones. I'm not so bold as to claim that I'm all of a sudden at the end of the transition line graph (yes, there is one). But it's progress.

My friend Lauren, who was my roommate and fellow YAV in New Orleans and is an absolutely lovely human being, also happens to be an exceptionally talented artist. She drew this picture and called it "To Miss New Orleans."

Click here to see more of Lauren's kick awesome art.
(You can even buy prints, phone cases and other goodies!)

So thank you, New Orleans, for helping me figure out who I am and who I am becoming (or maybe at least giving me the space freedom to figure it out for myself).

In New Orleans, you can be whoever the heck you want to be. You can wear ridiculous homemade tutus on Halloween and joyously jump in to the impromptu dance party that starts in the middle of the street (you know, hypothetically). You can walk through the Quarter dressed head-to-toe like a pirate on a random day in December (Not guilty. But I am most definitely a witness). You can see a musical about zombies produced in an old abandoned church (yes, it was as awesome as it sounds). You can be as creative, as out-there, as weird as your heart desires, and New Orleans? She'll put a daiquiri in your hand, some beads around your neck, and welcome you home with an enthusiastic "Who dat?!" (If you're not into daiquiris I'm sure she'd substitute a good cafe au lait.) New Orleans is still broken in a lot of ways, but she is also beautiful and full to the brim with characters of every sort, and the stories that go along with them. If you haven't met her yet, you should.

Love,
Allison.

PS - It also happens to be the YAV program's "Social Media Blitz Week," during which we harass (I mean uh...encourage) our friends (and acquaintances, and pretty much anyone who will listen) to check out the YAV life. And because I'm such a huge fan of this program, here's a slightly obligatory plug for it (admittedly copied and pasted, if that wasn't obvious...). Seriously though. If you're looking for a year that will change your life, check it out.

Do you want to spend a year putting your faith in action and serving in mission? Are you interested in a career in non-profit work, humanitarian aid, or church service? Then apply to be a Young Adult Volunteer! The Presbyterian YAV program is accepting applications now –www.pcusa.org/yav

Saturday, November 3, 2012

Grains of Sand

Hey there, friends, and long time no talk!

My apologies for the blogging absence. I know you've just been on the edges of your seats, dying to know when I'd post something new. (...Right?) As it turns out, they like to keep you kind of busy at seminary. I'm hoping at some point to share, here, some of the (what I think is) cool stuff I've been learning and thinking about here at CTS. But for now, here are some continued thoughts on life after YAV.

As part of YAV orientation each year, new volunteers are invited to get their craft on and create a bookmark. (Or, rather, decorate a pre-cut piece of card stock destined for a protective plastic sleeve. Shiny tassel included.) Markers and stickers abound as each person leaves a bit of his or her identity on a little paper rectangle. Later in the week these bookmarks are piled in a basket, and during a worship service each participant is again invited to take part, this time by picking up someone else's bookmark from the basket. Essentially, we took our new bookmarks with us as we scattered across the world, agreeing to pray for and think about the brother or sister whose bookmark we held.

In theory, our bookmarks' journeys are completed when they are returned to their creator at Transition Retreat in New Mexico. Logistically, this doesn't always happen. Bookmarks get left at placement sites (guilty) and lost amongst luggage, or people aren't able to miss work or school to travel to Ghost Ranch. Life happens.

But when I went to New Mexico back in September, I got my bookmark back. And stuck in the little plastic sleeve, along with the flower stickers and Mumford & Sons lyrics I left there more than a year ago, are grains of Guatemalan sand. I might not have even noticed them if the lovely keeper of my bookmark hadn't pointed them out on our way back to the airport (thanks, Kristi!). But sure enough, they're there.




You know how when you go to the beach the sand gets everywhere? You shower and do the laundry, but there's inevitably still a grain or two or ten in your hair, or in your pocket. A few weeks later you get out the bag you used and unexpectedly it dumps leftover sand all over your floor. A water bottle rolls under your passenger seat months after your beach trip and as you retrieve it you feel the grit of a few long forgotten grains of sand in your hand.

I think that's a little bit how my experience as a YAVA will be. It's been about five months now since I lived in New Orleans, and a good 16 or so since I lived in Nashville. In some ways it seems like I was in both of those places yesterday, and in others it seems like it's been about 8,000 years.

Just when I think I'm on to the next thing--when I'm sure I've dealt with those two years' challenges and embraced their happy memories--I find more sand in my proverbial backpack. A friend who still lives in New Orleans will post a picture of one of my favorite places or things, and I'll realize how much I miss it. Hurricane Isaac hit in August and I was glued to my computer's weather page. I catch a glimpse of the Bluebird on a commercial for that new show Nashville, and I realize how much I want to go back and visit. I think about my experiences in both of those places and realize to what an incredible degree they have shaped me and the path towards some sort of ministry that I am now pursuing. Do I know exactly what that journey will end up looking like? Of course not. But I know that the past two years are a huge part of the reason I'm here, I know that a handful of YAV(A)s are one of my biggest support systems, and I know that I'll probably be finding assorted grains of sand in my bookmarks and backpacks for a long. time. And you know what? I'm okay with that.

Love,
Allison.


Thursday, June 7, 2012

Grab Some Popcorn...

Hey friends,

I don't think I've shared this yet, so if you're an audio-visual learner, here's a video look into the minds of New Orleans YAVs. For those of you who don't know, the dog in the video is Thomas, who belongs to Kathy, our site coordinator and video-editor extraordinaire. It's about ten minutes long, and offers insight from the YAVs I live with here in New Orleans. Enjoy!

Love,
Allison.


Tuesday, May 22, 2012

Jazz Fest

Hey friends,

In an effort to catch up on sharing with you what I've been up to here in New Orleans, here's a slightly belated recap of our adventures at Jazz Fest!

I've been hearing about Jazz Fest since I moved here. Maybe even before that. And when I say Jazz Fest, I mean the New Orleans Jazz and Heritage Festival. It's the real deal, friends. Each Spring, the festival takes over the Fair Grounds Race Course for two long weekends (seven days total) filled with multiple stages that host thousands of musicians. There are specific tents for blues, jazz, and gospel music, in addition to stages of all sizes for artists of varying genres and levels of  fame. In the two Fridays my housemates and I were there, we were serenaded by...

Johnny Sketch & the Dirty Notes
Gomez
Comanche Hunters Mardi Gras Indians
Shades of Praise: New Orleans Interracial Gospel Choir
Irma Thomas
The Beach Boys
Marcia Ball
Grace Potter & the Nocturnals
Sarah Jarosz
Little Anthony & the Imperials

...and those we just the ones we intentionally spent time listening to. Countless others provided the soundtrack to our wandering between food vendors and stages. Seriously, it was borderline overwhelming the first day we were there. In case you're curious, here's just the lineup for the first day we went.

And the food! Oh, the food. I had a snoball from Plum Street Snoballs, crawfish bread (think home-made Hot Pocket...delicious bread encasing crawfish and tons of melty cheese), a fried alligator poboy, and crawfish beignets (not as weird as it might sound...they weren't sweet like the ones from Cafe du Monde). Some delicious rose mint iced tea, too. I've been told the food is almost as big a part of Jazz Fest as the music, and I'm pretty satisfied with my attempts to participate in that side of the festival.

There are also booths upon booths of crafts from various geographic locations and mediums. I only window shopped (well...tent shopped?), but it was still a great part of the experience. Also peppered in between stages, food stands, and craft booths were occasional second lines and Mardi Gras Indian parades. Below is a video of one Mardi Gras Indian celebration we happened upon at Jazz Fest, in which you can get a good look at their exquisite costumes, which are all beautifully handmade new every year. For more Mardi Gras Indian pictures and a couple other recent events, look at the pictures in this album.



The best part about Jazz Fest, I think, is that true to its full name it is genuinely a celebration of heritage. New Orleans is so much more than jazz music (not that jazz isn't lovely in itself). And while there were plenty of people there to see the big name out-of-town bands, there is nothing like the way that New Orleans embraces her local talent. Around these parts, the local talent can be just about any kind of music you'd imagine. New Orleans has a history full of countless international influences, plus a vibe that is all her own. And Jazz Fest seems to bring a lot of that together in one place.

There's the added bonus, too, that Jazz Fest has its own entry in the book 1,000 Places to See Before You Die. I loyally add sticky notes to the pages I've seen, and as someone with a soft spot for lists, it brought me joy to add another one!

This past weekend brought with it our monthly community day, for which my housemates and I helped out at a local food pantry, then headed south to Grand Isle for some relaxing time on the beach. More on that comin' atcha soon!

Love,
Allison


Monday, April 30, 2012

With Love from S. Derbigny Street

Hey friends!

Recently my community put together a newsletter with reflections from our years so far. In case you've missed it, our house includes nine roommates, both YAV and AmeriCorps. We work in after school programs, rebuilding organizations, a hospital chaplains department, a community garden, port ministries and more. You can find my reflection below, but if you've got a few minutes I'd highly suggest you see what my roommates have to say too. It's still just a small glimpse into the ways in which God is at work in New Orleans, but it's at least a bigger picture than what you've gotten here so far! The link below will take you to the newsletter. Enjoy!


As for my contribution to the reflections, part of it was taken from a post I wrote back in October, so it may sound a little familiar. There's some new stuff too, though, so in case you're interested:

It’s quite hard to believe that I have been in New Orleans for more than seven months. Since I moved here in August, I’ve met countless people who have left their mark on my heart. One of those people is Ronald. Two housemates and I met Ronald back in October, in the midst of soaking up music (and humidity) at the Blues and BBQ Festival.
Ronald, who was being pushed in a wheelchair, approached us that evening and proceeded to tell us that he does improv poetry, and he wanted to share one with us. Off he went, rhythmically rhyming in an on-the-spot poem he told us was called "Three Queens." It was all about these three princesses who just wanted to take off their crowns for a day and enjoy regular life. About how the king and queen were worried for the princesses, but the princesses just needed to get away from the castle for a while and see what life was all about. They were going to be just fine. After he was done, Ronald told us he just wanted to say that he could see the light and the love in our faces, and that he just wanted to remind us that we're beautiful.
Ronald literally left us speechless. Often I've retrospectively seen God's presence in a certain situation, but friends in that moment I felt like I was staring God right in the face. It seemed so unbelievable to me that a random man in the park could get so much right about us. About me. Many of us embark on these year-long adventures outside of our proverbial castles, often to places far away both geographically and culturally. Sure, folks back home might be worried: What is she doing with her life? When's he going back to school? Are they safe there? But we sneak out anyway, just to see what it's like. And we'll be alright. That is not by any means to say that our adventures will be free of struggle and hardship, but we’ll make it. 
During a recent community meeting, my housemates and I were posed the question: “How is it with your soul?” Oh, no big deal, right? Just describe the well-being of your soul. But I quickly realized that the reason that question intimidated me so much was simply the abundance of answers I could provide for it. 
My soul is grateful, for the city of New Orleans and my community here. My soul is inspired, by the Young Adult Volunteer program and the work that it is doing. My soul is weary, because this year has tested my confidence in many ways. My soul is hurting, for people who are without homes or adequate food, and for those who encounter violence on a daily basis. 
And my soul is renewed. While challenges are still ever present, I am so incredibly grateful for the experiences I have had through the YAV program. I have learned so many things about myself during these two years, and it’s very intimidating to think that this major chapter of my life will be over in a few short months. 

Perhaps my community and the YAV program have become another of the castles of which Ronald spoke, and it’s just time for me to go explore the rest of the world.  So with a grateful, inspired, weary, hurting, and renewed soul, I will continue my journey from castle to castle, in constant wonder of who I will meet and what I will learn along the way.


Love,
Allison.

P.S. - In case you're curious, our street name is pronounced DER-bin-ee. (That's probably not technically the way to write that pronunciation. But hopefully you get the idea.)

Sunday, March 18, 2012

Caution: Flying Produce Ahead

Hello dear friends,

If you haven't caught on by now: New Orleans knows how to celebrate. So of course St. Patrick's Day this weekend was no exception! Nor is today, St. Joseph's Day, which is also Super Sunday here in the Crescent City.

First: St. Patty's. In addition to the block parties and other shenanigans that go on at various local establishments, there is (waiiit for it...) a parade! Just having recovered from the more than 20 parades we caught during Mardi Gras, we were claiming our spot in the neutral ground once again. Four parades rolled in New Orleans and the surrounding towns on Saturday, but we just caught the one Uptown, nearest to our house. This particular parade (which turned out to be quite lengthy) featured multiple walking clubs with marchers dressed in anything from full kilt get-ups to top hats and coattails and everything in between. Most of these folks carried umbrella handles full of flowers. Some flowers were the standard artificial silk, some made of wood, and some crafted out of tissue paper and wire. All along the route, they gift these flowers to parade goers, often in exchange for a kiss on the cheek. In case you're having trouble picturing the flower-filled-umbrella-handle thing, check out these dudes in a picture borrowed from nola.com:

Read more about the history of the parade here. Also, see more Times-Picayune pictures of the parade here.

After most of the marching groups came the floats. In addition to the obligatory beads and assorted toys, the more entertaining throws included cabbage and a multitude of other produce (typically ingredients that go into stew), and Irish Spring soap. Personally I scored a cabbage, a carrot, and an onion. I've got some cooking to do tonight! We'll see how that goes...

After the parade we had a little rest at the house, and then headed out to dinner at one of our favorite restaurants. Our window table at Rum House provided ample opportunity for people watching and a fascinating opportunity to see how quickly the city can clean up a street after a parade. (I s'pose they've had plenty of practice at this point.)

In an effort to keep these posts short-ish (even I start skimming after a few paragraphs...oops), I think I'll save Super Sunday for another post, but be on the lookout for that soon! For now, here are a few pictures of Ashley, Lauren and me at the parade. And for the record, stick-on mustaches are not the most comfortable things in the world. But they sure are festive!

Love,
Allison
Pre-parade mustache modeling.
Cabbage!
Carrots, onions, and garlic, oh my!

Monday, March 12, 2012

Read These Books

Hey friends,

I've found that New Orleans is a place that is difficult to describe. I know I've said that before, but even after living here for six months I struggle to put this place into words that I feel will really do it justice. It's much better to just come see it for yourself.

One part you can't see for yourself, though, is Hurricane Katrina. You hardly even hear the name here, really. There's no need. It's just The Hurricane. The Storm. The Flood. As far as storytelling in New Orleans goes (there's a lot of that here), time seems to be split in two: there are the things that happened before Katrina, and those that happened after. It doesn't take long, still, to find the spray painted X's that remain on all too many houses, constant reminders of someone(s) that had to leave more than six years ago and never made it back. But we can't really see it, or know how it felt. Despite the fact that New Orleans does at times feel like home now and will forever hold a part of my heart, I've just been here for half of a year, and I'll be gone after another five months. No matter how many people I talk to or how many stories I hear, I will never ever truly understand what it was like and what this city, her people, and much of the Gulf Coast have been through. Sure I can tell you that the water came up to the light switch in my house, but I wasn't the one that saw it rise. I'm not from here. I wasn't there. I will never know. It makes me nervous to write about reactions to the storm, even, because I am terrified of unintentionally misrepresenting or minimalizing what happened to this city and the region surrounding it.

So, instead of saying more about it myself, for now I just want to offer two book suggestions that share varying perspectives on the days and years leading up to, during, and following the storm. No judgement here if you're not into it, but if you'd like to read more from the people who were here, check them out. The subject matter is obviously difficult to read, but both volumes also offer small glimpses into the resiliency of this city that I have come admire so much.

The first is Dan Baum's Nine Lives. If you've talked to me much at all about New Orleans, you've probably heard me mention this book already. While the author is not a native New Orleanian himself (he got to know the city as a reporter for The New Yorker), he chronicles the lives of nine people with various ties to New Orleans, in the context of a timeline that starts with Hurricane Betsy in 1965 and moves through Katrina and the days that followed. Baum takes countless interviews with the nine main "characters" and others, and crafts them into pages of narrative. He takes small liberties here and there but still, from what I know, provides accounts that are on the whole an accurate portrayal of events. I read Nine Lives before I arrived in New Orleans, and even being mostly unfamiliar with the city it was incredibly powerful. And now that I have found a relative familiarity with street names and neighborhoods, I find myself interpreting accounts of Katrina through an entirely new lense.

Brief bios of the nine main folks in the book can be found here.

The next literary suggestion I offer is Chris Rose's 1 Dead in Attic. As the title and book cover imply, it is blunt look at the aftermath of the storm, this time from the eyes of one New Orleanian journalist. (While Rose isn't "native" in the born-and-bred sense, he'd been in town for more than 20 years when the storm hit.) The book itself is a collection of short essays by Rose that were originally published in The Times-Picayune. This account offers the perspective of a New Orleans resident faced with the challenge of reporting on the dire condition of his own decimated home town. Standard journalistic objectivity goes out the window, and although the author's own home didn't flood, his words make it painfully clear that Katrina deeply affected every single New Orleanian regardless of the physical damage sustained by his or her belongings. To read the November 2005 article for which the book is named, click here. The image at the beginning of the article displays just one example of spray paint markings used by rescue crews, some of which are still visible on houses across the city. I'm not quite finished reading this one yet, but I can already tell you it's worth a read if you're interested in a glimpse into the immediate aftermath of Katrina.


As I was reading some comments on 1 Dead in Attic, one reviewer stated: "The storm is not over, and recovery of the entire Gulf Coast will take somewhere between ten years and infinity." Although that comment was posted more than a year ago, that minimum estimate of ten years is still more than three years away. And just to imagine infinity...that the road to recovery may never end. As heartbreaking as that is, I'd believe it. That hurricane and the flood that followed are forever an enormous part of this city's story. I'm quite sure that road to recovery still has many miles yet untraveled, and there is still plenty to be done. But I have also found New Orleans to be such a vibrant and beautiful place, and I am quite sure she won't be giving up any time soon.

In a display of the character that is so unique to this city, Chris Rose writes: "Dear America, I suppose we should introduce ourselves: We're South Louisiana. You probably already know that we talk funny and listen to strange music and eat things you'd probably hire an exterminator to get out of your yard. We dance even if there's no radio. We drink at funerals. We talk too much and laugh too loud and live too large and, frankly, we're suspicious of others who don't." Cheers to you, New Orleans.

Love,
Allison.

Thursday, February 16, 2012

Throw Me Something, Mister!

Hey friends!

With Mardi Gras quickly approaching, our schedule of extracurricular activities here in New Orleans has become jam packed! Good gosh does this city throw a lot of parades. More specifically, it is the Carnival krewes that do the parading.

I mentioned krewes briefly in my post about the Joan of Arc parade that happened last month, but in case you need a refresher: krewes (pronounced just like "crews" or "cruise") are essentially social clubs made up of dues-paying members. Some are more exclusive and require a special invitation to join, while others can be joined by anyone willing to pay the dues. Some are largely made up of New Orleanians, while others contain many out-of-town members. Many have specific characteristics, too. Muses, for example, is all female, and the Krewe of Cork hosts wines tastings throughout the year.

Most krewes parade every Mardi Gras season on the same established route and date. We YAVs are fortunate this year to live within walking distance of the Uptown parade route. Everyone seems to have their own strategy for spectating, too. You're either neutral ground side, or sidewalk side. Seriously, people are dedicated enough to their sides that there are even tshirts to declare your loyalty! We've become quite partial to the neutral ground (or the median, as they say in non-NOLA places). Parents add seats to the tops of ladders from which their children watch parades (because contrary to popular opinion, most of Mardi Gras is very family friendly).

And then there are the throws. Those, as I also mentioned in that Joan of Arc post, are the things riders throw (get it?) from their floats. These include the traditional plain plastic beads, in addition to strands of varying size and shape. Many krewes have medallion beads too, which feature their name and/or emblem, and some krewes also distribute glass beads. Then there are the plastic cups, doubloons (metal or wooden coins with krewe emblems and dates), stuffed animals, and an assortment of handmade krewe-specific throws. The ones we keep hearing about are Muses' decorated shoes, and Zulu's decorated coconuts. Also, at the Oshun parade last weekend, I got my hands on some sweet Hannah Montana pens. There is a distinct strategy to catching throws. So far as I've learned, you have to pick out the rider you want something from, make eye contact with them and wave and cheer and if necessary, yell the kind of throw you're aiming to get.

Another important part of these parades (and one of my favorite parts, at that) are the marching bands. Every parade we've been to has featured at least a handful of bands and dance groups. It's refreshing to see a city and tradition that puts so much value and importance on middle and high school arts. Granted, I don't know the specifics of actual music programs in schools, and it's no secret that New Orleans loves music. But I think it's so great that these marching bands have such an established role in parade season.

To get an idea of just how many parades happen in New Orleans and the surrounding areas, you can take a gander at the parade schedule for the month here. We went to six just last weekend, and now there are parades every day through Mardi Gras. A few roommates and I went on an adventure last night for costume supplies to be put to use on Mardi Gras day...all I'm saying is there might be a purple toga in the works, and colored/glitter hairspray was buy one get one free at Party City. Don't worry, I'm sure there will be ample photo documentation.

Until then, here are some parade pictures from our adventures so far...all of which I stole from Lauren. (Thanks roomie.)

Love,
Allison


Krewe of Cork marchin' on through the Quarter.
Post Krewe of Cork, excited about our wine-related acquisitions. 

Because, you know, a giant plastic toothbrush is a totally logical thing to throw off of a parade float.

Krewe of Pontchartrain rolls down St. Charles Ave.

It's not even funny how excited we were to score Pontchartrain medallions.

Parade buddies!




Tuesday, January 24, 2012

A Beautiful Day In the Neighborhood

Hey friends!

As part of living in intentional community, my roommates and I (and our fearless leader, Kathy) gather one Saturday a month for a service project somewhere in the city. In December we planted trees and learned a little more about wetlands restoration. For our January day together, which was this past Saturday, we helped clear a vacant lot in the 7th Ward. 

First, just a few words on why lots need to be cleared in the first place. In the months and years after Katrina and the following evactuation of New Orleans, many people have returned and were able to piece back together their lives. Others, however, were forced for  one reason or another to abandon their homes here. After a while, the city and other organizations began to tear down houses that had been deteriorating and empty since the storm, leaving vacant pieces of property which quickly filled up with weeds, litter and other debris. While these vacant lots may be better in theory than a deterioriating house, they're still rather unsightly and aren't safe places for the kids in the neighborhood. So projects like the one we participated in don't only aesthetically benefit the area, they make it a safer place to be. Win-win! Often, as we learned, neighbors will offer to maintain a vacant lot (mowing it, etc), but don't have the resources or manpower (personpower?) to get it to a place where it's mowable.

For our work on Saturday morning, the seven of us (housemates minus two, plus Kathy) split up a little. I worked on a lot with my fellow North Carolinian Eric, Bueana, Laura, and Kathy. Armed with gloves and a combination of rakes, clippers, and a couple weedwackers, we plowed right into the brush. Our general strategy tended to be: 1. Pick up all the litter you can see, whilst brushing away the spiky caterpillars that are all over the place (Seriously. They were everywhere.). 2. Clip and/or weed wack bigger vegetation. 3. Rake debris. 4. Put aforementioned trash and plants into bags for the truck to pick up. 5. Rinse and repeat.

The manual labor was a change of pace for almost everybody (sorry Eric), and it was strangely therapeutic. Granted, we were still in the city, but it was a nice change of pace to get outside and do something physical that is visibly making a difference. Plus, you can find all sorts of stuff in a lot that's been vacant and untended for at least a year. Treasures we found included: a mattress, a disintigrating metal grill, some scary movie DVD, a door, and (drumroll please) a pile of dead fish!

Even more satisfying than the physical, visual difference we made was the spirit of the neighbors we saw. The man who lived across the street from the lot walked right up to us and told us if we needed anything, anything at all, to not even think about worrying him and just ask. The owner of the lot dropped off a bucket of bottled water and sports drinks. Folks driving by would slow down, wave, and honk their horns in appreciation. Not, of course, that we did it to be thanked, but it's always encouraging when your efforts are so openly affirmed.

So all in all, it was a lovely day. Here are a couple pictures of our project, followed by a link to more photographic evidence.

Eric, Bueana, Laura, and me at the beginning of the day...


...and after! (Note the expertly cleared lot in the background.)

For more pictures from our day of service, click here. (Also feel free to like the PSL YAV page on Facebook. Because, you know, we're pretty great. Quite humble, too.)

Hopefully a Mardi Gras post coming soon!
Love,
Allison

Monday, January 16, 2012

I Guess Football Isn't So Bad

Hey friends,

There's another little bit of New Orleans culture that I've come to appreciate and that I don't think has gotten much attention. That would be football. And by "football," I mean the Saints. You can't forget about LSU, but my oh my does this town love the Saints. Black and gold American flags (with a fleur de lis in place of each star, of course) are probably more common than the red, white and blue ones 'round here, and game day or not you won't have to go far to see mini Saints flags attached to car windows. Every Friday at work, Saints tshirts are all over the place, and all season long the blood bank's donor tshirts are Saints-themed. And don't you dare schedule anything for a Sunday afternoon without checking the Saints schedule first. It's everywhere.

Any of you who know me will know that sports have never been high on my list of interests. For better or worse, my main motivation for going to football games at Furman was that I liked being in the stands with my friends (at least I was still there?). But, anyway, I was advised the following before I moved to New Orleans: "Just get a Saints shirt as soon as you get there, and you'll fit right in." I followed instructions, but continue to be amazed at how thoroughly engrained the Saints are in what seems like every New Orleanian's life. And these people aren't fair weather fans. Win or lose, they love their Saints. (But that doesn't mean a loss won't put everybody in a foul mood that Monday...) For a long time the Saints weren't exactly a winning team, and not many people thought they'd turn into anything. Not unlike the fact that for a while, a lot of people wondered if New Orleans would recover from Katrina and the levees breaking. But just as New Orleanians didn't give up on their city, they won't give up on their team. That Super Bowl win in 2009 probably helped fuel the fire a bit too...

Now I know there are plenty of sports fans out there that check schedules and change moods depending on their team's success or lack thereof. But it's been a new thing for me. And I have to say, I've kind of enjoyed it! Obviously there'll always be a place in my heart for Furman sports, but I think the Saints are at least the first pro team that I've really, truly cared about. (Well, I did enjoy following the Preds last year in Nashville. But, back to football...) No, I can't name every player, but I can name a few and that's more than I can say for most other sports teams I've had connections to. And yes, I still only have one Saints tshirt, but I've sure gotten some good use out of it. I've also been told that the heartbreak I experienced following the Saints' tragic loss to the 49ers this past Saturday just means that I'm doing this whole sports fan thing right. Sigh...

And there you have it, folks. Allison Wehrung blogging about sports. Who would've thought?!

Love,
Allison

Thursday, January 12, 2012

On the Twelfth Day of Christmas...


...the next holiday season started!

One of the many bits of character that New Orleans has about her is Carnival! So, friends, I'm hoping to make part of my blogging in the next month and a half an attempt at sharing what I've learned about it so far. First thing's first: Carnival is the season, which begins on Twelfth Night and ends with Mardi Gras (which is, specifically, the day before Ash Wednesday). Some people seem to refer also to the season as Mardi Gras, but at least now you know the technical vocab. There are an overwhelming number of aspects to the culture of Mardi Gras here in New Orleans, so I'm hoping to share it with you bit by bit. As it turns out, this season is a heck of a lot more than shenanigans on Bourbon Street.

For starters, and for this post, there is Twelfth Night. The particulars of the exact date vary a little by tradition but here, January 6th signals the occasion and with it the arrival of Carnival season. While most of the physical celebrations and parades center around Mardi Gras day and the week or two leading up to it, Twelfth Night means it's officially alright to eat King Cake and put up purple, green, and gold stuff in your houses! So here's to hoping you all eat some cake and maybe even get the piece with the little plastic baby in it (fair warning: apparently, in addition to being good luck, the baby also means you have to buy the next one).

January 6th also happens to be Joan of Arc's birthday. Given that she's quite the hero around these parts, there's a parade in her honor each January 6th, put on by the Krewe de Jeanne d'Arc. (More on Mardi Gras krewes in a later post maybe, but they're essentially different social clubs, some more exclusive and secretive than others. Many of them throw a parade and a ball each Carnival season.) In this particular parade, participants dressed in Medieval clothing and walked through the French Quarter, starting at a statue of Jean-Baptiste Le Moyne de Bienville (who is credited with founding the city of New Orleans) and ending at the statue of Joan. One of my favorite parts of the parade was the six women on horseback, each portraying a different Joan of Arc. The Joans ranged from a younger Joan to a warrior Joan and a flag-carrying golden Joan (that one represents the statue). There were also these kids walking on stilts, who I'm pretty sure are way cooler than I'll ever be.

Another important (and fun) part of all of these parades are the throws. While these often involve beads of different color and size, they can also include handmade items, which vary depending on the krewe and the parade. While I was hoping to get one of the sweet handmade and decorated wooden swords, that didn't exactly work out. (I think you had to be a cute little kid dressed in a knight costume...live and learn, I guess.) I did get a couple neat crosses, and a magnet too! Seeing as though this particular parade was in celebration of a birthday, numbered candles were also distributed, one for each of Joan's 600 years. Also apparently popular in many parades are doubloons (fun word, no?), which are either wooden or metal and usually feature the krewe's emblem and founding year on one side, with the year of the parade on the other. Take a gander at the spoils of my first New Orleans parade experience:


Like I said, most of the other parades won't happen until the week or two leading up to Mardi Gras, but I'm hoping to do some reading about the season and different traditions, and maybe share some more of it here. So, if there's anything in particular you're curious about, feel free to let me know in the comments or elsewhere. I've just found myself so fascinated by it all that I wanted to share. If you don't find yourself as interested, please forgive me and feel free to just skim these posts. :)

Love,
Allison.

Monday, January 9, 2012

Home for the Holidays

Hello dear friends, and merry New Year!

With the advent of this newest year in our lives, social networks and real-life conversations alike have been overflowing with memories of 2011 and hopes for 2012. And here in New Orleans, the store aisles dedicated to Christmas decorations and supplies have quickly been replaced with the purple, green, and gold of Mardi Gras. Before we get into that, though, here are a few words on the end of my 2011...

If you've read my last couple posts, you know some crazy stuff has been going on in these parts. I found myself hoping rather desperately that I could find some warm fuzzy feelings about New Orleans before she and I parted ways for Christmas. I lucked out and found those warm fuzzies in the form of caroling in Jackson Square. Hosted by a group called the Patio Planters, the event has been goin' down every Sunday-before-Christmas since 1946. Each year thousands of people (natives, transplants, and tourists alike) gather in the square just outside of St. Louis' Cathedral, reading from songbooks by candlelight, singing everything from "Good King Wenceslas" to "Feliz Navidad" with a little "Rudolph" sprinkled in. Apparently, this year, 8,000+ carolers kept us company. Local leaders both religious and secular introduced the carols and special guests. In true NOLA fashion, the Archbishop worked the crowd before his opening prayer with a: "So how 'bout those Saints? Are we going to the Super Bowl or what?!" To which the crowd replied with an assortment of cheers including the ever popular "WHO DAT!" The spirit of this town just doesn't get old. Jillian, Lauren, Ashley and I had smiles plastered across our faces the entire time (except for when I spilled hot wax on my hand...), and it was even "cold" enough for us to wear scarves! And, of course, we just had to fight the post-caroling crowds at Cafe du Monde for a few beignets and some cafe au lait. It would've been a great evening under any circumstances, but I was especially grateful to have this experience just a few days before I headed up to North Carolina. For your viewing pleasure, here are a few pictures of the occasion (none of which I actually took)...


Caroling by candlelight in Jackson Square. (That's Lauren, Jillian and Ashley.)


Excited about our songbooks. Can you say free souvenir?!


Lauren's sister Lindsay was in town to experience the NOLA holiday magic.

Just a few days after our caroling adventures, I was off to Davidson for Christmas with the family. Holidays have turned out to be an interesting thing in YAV land. Sometimes going home is a welcomed break from a stressful placement, and a chance to reconnect with friends, family, and the local coffee shop. But there is also the fact that I am not the same person I was a year and a half a half ago. Of course, the Allison that graduated from Furman also wasn't the exact same one that graduated from high school four years before that, but this seems to be a little different. It's also one of those things that I don't think I can fully put into words, but it has also been a very real part of my YAV experience. And I couldn't help but think about the rest of the YAV community, many of whom were either struggling with returning home a changed person or were struggling with not being able to return home for the holidays. Maybe it was the Christmas warm fuzzies, but again I just found myself thinking of how much I love this little YAV family, and how thankful I am that it's a part of my life.

After a quick six days in the homeland, it was back to New Orleans in time for New Years Eve. Given the fact that I managed to pick up an awesome cold on my way out of Davidson, Ashley and I just went out for a delicious Mediterranean dinner, and headed back to the house, snacks in hand, to watch the ball drop on TV. Highlights of the evening: the woman working in the vintage clothing store complimented my dress when Ashley and I were doing some pre-dinner window shopping, and a little seven or eight year old girl complimented my sparkly shoes. Score. My other favorite part of the evening was right after midnight, as I stood on our balcony watching fireworks in almost every direction. Just past the buildings and scattered trees you could see the the big display over the Quarter, and in almost any other way you looked, you could see the occasional colorful explosions that people were setting of on their own. Despite the fact that I'm not sure exactly how safe it is to set off fireworks in the middle of narrow streets that are lined with mostly-made-of-wood houses, I couldn't help but feel happy standing there breathing in the cool air of a brand new year. And however much of a love/hate relationship I seem to have with this city, I think it's also a place that I'm proud to call one of my homes.

Just six days after New Years, the next holiday season rolled around. Happy Carnival, friends! Be on the look out soon for a post about our Twelfth Night reveling and the first parade of the season. 43 days until Mardi Gras...

Love,
Allison.

Monday, December 12, 2011

In All Honesty

Hey friends,

For those of you who have followed this blog with any regularity over the past 16 months or so, you may have noticed that new additions have been made far more seldomly this year than last. (Thanks for the reminder, Mom.) By no means does that indicate that I've less to say, it's just that, in all honesty, this year has been hard so far. And, while I can acknowledge well enough that it's been hard, I do think that it's been a challenge to put it into words. I also want to preface this post, however, by saying that these comments are in no way a plea for sympathy or an effort to stress anybody out. It's merely my best attempt at sharing an honest portrayal of my year in New Orleans. So here goes nothin'.

It wouldn't be very honest of me to say that this has been a difficult four (ish) months without mentioning work. By no means am I saying I'm the only person out there struggling with working in a hospital chaplains department, but it's kind of a new thing for me to not love what I do every day. It has been a challenging thing for me to realize that maybe I'm not going to be super thrilled about going to work every morning, and that maybe I'm not meant to be a hospital chaplain when I grow up. But I'm also trying to remember that I am meant to be here this year. We'll see where this part of my journey goes, but maybe that conversation is for another day.

What has been affecting me (and I venture to say most of my house) more, as of late, is the crime that seems to be creeping in closer and closer to our little intentional community. It is no secret that New Olreans isn't the safest city in the world, but over the past few weeks several members of our community have directly experienced, whether as victims or witnesses, instances of violence. In addition to that, reports of other events near our house have had everyone on edge. And while I know that violence is very much a reality in this world and in many cities, as someone who grew up in a pleasantly small town it has been especially hard to stare it in the face. It truly breaks my heart that people find themselves in positions in which violence and crime seem like the only option, and it breaks my heart that people I love are being hurt physically and emotionally. And I think all of these events have slowly but surely chipped away at our ability to feel comfortable in this city that is our home for the year. You want some cash, but you're afraid to walk by yourself across the street to Walgreens even in the middle of the day. Or you had a bad day and want to just sit in your car for a while when you get home from work, but are very aware of the fact the gravel lot by the house is pretty isolated and awfully dark by the time 5:30pm rolls around. I think we're definitely past that "honeymoon phase" they kept talking about at orientation. Culture shock much?

While we are obviously very conscious of traveling in groups, always locking the house, and making other safety-conscious decisions, the fact is that, at least speaking for myself: I'm just tired. I'm tired of seeing a constant stream of crime reports on the news, I'm tired of feeling the need to speed walk just the short distance from my car to my house, I'm tired of being suspicious of almost everybody I see on the street, and honestly, I'm tired of feeling guilty for having all of these feelings (I know a whole lot of people have it worse off than I do). But it is so hard to feel at home in a place where you feel as though your guard needs to constantly be up. And even though it seems like Christmas is coming at us with the speed of lightning (which in education land means the year's half over), we've still got two thirds of our YAV years to go.

All of this being said, we're hanging in there. Our little baby Christmas tree and some stockings are doing their job of bringing holiday cheer to the living room, and we are looking forward to the chance to visit with family and friends over Christmas. This past Saturday was our monthly community day (in addition to our Tuesday night meetings), and we spent the morning planting trees. I know it was therapeutic for me, and I suspect a lot of my roommates feel the same way. It was a wonderful thing to be away from the city in a little bit of nature (even though I could still hear the cargo ships on the river), and to be physically, visibly improving the land around us, and just to get a little dirt on our hands. I mean plus I saw an armadillo, some cool bugs and a cute little swamp melon. It was a welcomed break from "real life." And New Orleans is still full of so much beauty and character, if we can only remember to look for it.

So as I said before, I don't mean to alarm anyone with my words here. But I do humbly ask that, if you're the prayin' type, you keep our community in your prayers, that we can find hope and peace of mind as we're making our way through this rough patch. During the closing prayer after our community dinner Saturday evening, one roomate read Psalm 23, and it was fitting enough that it brought be to tears. So, whether you need it right now or not, I'll leave you with those words.

Love,
Allison

1 The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want.
2   He makes me lie down in green pastures;
he leads me beside still waters;
3   he restores my soul.
He leads me in right paths
   for his name’s sake.

4 Even though I walk through the darkest valley,
   I fear no evil;
for you are with me;
   your rod and your staff—
   they comfort me.

5 You prepare a table before me
   in the presence of my enemies;
you anoint my head with oil;
   my cup overflows.
6 Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me
   all the days of my life,
and I shall dwell in the house of the Lord
   my whole life long.

Friday, October 28, 2011

Finding God in Lafayette Square

Friends, I think I'm officially falling in love with New Orleans. I'm going to do my best to explain just a some of it to you, though several roommates and I have determined it's probably not possible to truly convey the beauty of this city unless you see it for yourself. (We have several couches and extra beds. Just sayin'.) I don't really feel like my storytelling will completely do these moments justice, but I hope this will be able to convey at least a little of the spirit I've found here in New Orleans.


Anyway, a couple weekends ago Lauren, Jillian and I set off for the Crescent City Blues & BBQ Festival. We pulled into a parking lot, and as I was walking up to the machine to pay, a man walked up and told us he was leaving, and that we were welcome to have his ticket (which still had about six hours left). Then after some good food and even better music, we started wandering around the booths of various artists and other vendors. We proceeded to meet an artist who had these incredible paintings of New Orleans and Katrina recovery efforts. She of course, because it's NOLA, talked to us forever, telling us about the city and Mardi Gras and plenty of other things too, and was eager to hear about where we're from and why we're here. Then, as we sat back down, we met Ronald.

Ronald, who was being pushed in a wheelchair, proceeded to tell us he does improv poetry, and he wanted to share one with us. So off he went, rhythmically rhyming in an on-the-spot poem he told us was called "Three Queens." It was all about these three queens/princesses (he switched back and forth between those) who just wanted to take off their crowns for a day and enjoy regular life. How the king and queen were worried about the princesses, but the princesses just needed to get away from the castle for a while and see what life was all about. They were going to be just fine. After he was done, Ronald told us he just wanted to say that he could see the light and the love in our faces, and that he just wanted to remind us that we're beautiful.

Ronald literally left us speechless. Often I've retrospectively seen God's presence in a certain situation, but friends, in that moment I felt like I was staring God right in the face. It seemed so unbelievable to me that a random guy in the park could get so much right about us. About me. At the risk of speaking inaccurately for other people, I think the ways that Ronald's poem described me could probably be applied to a lot of YAVs. Many of us embark on these year-long adventures outside of our proverbial castles, often to places far away both geographically and culturally. Sure, folks back home might be worried: What is she doing with her life? When's he going back to school? Are they safe there? But we sneak out anyway, to see what it's like out here. And we'll be alright.

I think then even our YAV context can become a castle of sorts, if for different reasons. Many specific YAV jobs involve stressful work, and after work time is often filled with community meetings and other events. That is not to say that we need or want to forget about or ignore the work we do or the issues we care about, but sometimes it's nice to take off the YAV hat and just enjoy some music sitting in the grass outside. And sometimes that's ok. As I continue settling in to a year that is far from easy, it was wonderful to hear that.


Love,
Allison


Thursday, October 6, 2011

Nuts & Bolts

Hey friends,

I s'pose it's about time I told you all what actually goes on here in New Orleans, yeah?  Feel free to skim and/or skip this, but for those of you who are interested, here it goes...

The house.
There are six of us YAVs this year, but nine people in our house, which is owned by the Episcopal church next door. (Just a little different from three people in a Toolshed last year...) Two floors, seven bedrooms (two are empty, and all but one are shared), three bathrooms, red doors and a wonderful balcony just perfect for hammocking. We only have one stove and oven, which gets complicated with nine of us, but there are two refrigerators and two microwaves in two separate kitchen areas, so we're makin' it! The house has had several past lives: church office, duplex, rental house...

The roommates.
As I mentioned up there at the beginning, there are nine of us. Lauren, Eric, Ashley, Jillian, Emma and I are the YAVs, and we're joined by Tyrone, Bueana, and Laura who work with various programs in the city. The New Orleans YAVs are organized, as a site, through the Presbytery of South Louisiana. Links to my roomies' blogs (that I know about) are attached to their names, if you're interested. We hail from seven different states, and do all sorts of things in the city: saving the wetlands, hanging out with kids, managing volunteers that come  to help rebuild, visiting hospital patients, and even getting to know some of the many seafarers that come to port in New Orleans. You'll just have to stalk those blogs to learn more. :)

The job. 
This is old information for some of you, but I spend my days here in New Orleans working in the pastoral care department of a big hospital system. The system has approximately a billion different campuses (hospitals, clinics, you name it), but mainly I spend my time at the main campus visiting new patients and introducting them to the department. Patients move in and out pretty quickly, so there are always plenty of people to be visited. There are also a handful of other chaplains at the main campus, including some staff chaplains and some resident chaplains. Also, two mornings a week, I work at the hospital campus that's right across the street from our house, helping organize a new pastoral care library. Those are the basics, but surely I'll have more to say as the year goes on.

The city.
I'm not even going to try and fit New Orleans into a paragraph. Another post is coming soon about the Big Easy, but to tide you over (because I know you're all on the edge of your seats): Just having been here a month I can feel New Orleans working its way into my heart. She is a city full of character. Full of life, death, heartbreak, recovery, inspiration and so much more. Not to mention the seafood, inevitable U-turns (excuse me...Louisiana Lefts), and flexible definitions of "on time."

And that's it for now, friends. Apparently we have functioning internet in our house now, so I may just get around to posting some of the half-written blogs that have been staring at me for weeks!

Love,
Allison

Wednesday, August 17, 2011

Here We Go Again...

Hey friends!

I made it to New Orleans today, for YAV round two! All my stuff is in my new YAV home, but I'm in a hotel room with Mom right now, before I take her to the airport tomorrow morning. Luckily I'm blessed with a good mommy that is able and willing to drive with me. 729 miles, 13 hours, and 20 police/trooper car sightings later, we're here in Louisiana! And by the wonders of a smartphone we even got to enjoy a Spice-Girls-inspired channel on Pandora for part of the drive. (And by "enjoy" I mean I thoroughly enjoyed and Mom so kindly tolerated.)

Tomorrow most of the other YAVs arrive, and the day after we start our New Orleans orientation. Then on Monday we jet off to Stony Point for orientation with everybody else.

There's a playground pretty much in my backyard again, but the house itself is quite the change! So far seven people will be living there...two floors, a porch, a balcony, and Mardi Gras beads still stuck in the tree out front.

More on New Orleans and orientations to come!
Love,
Allison

Thursday, August 11, 2011

The House(s) That Built Me

Well friends, I'm home. In Davidson. My year as a Nashville YAV is officially and totally over. I don't think it's really sunk in yet...seems like when I leave in less than a week I should be heading back to Nashville instead of New Orleans. (But that having been said, I'm still super stoked about heading to the Big Easy.)
In other news, my last weekend in Nashville was filled with Furman friends, due to a wedding in town. It was sort of odd, Furman people in my YAV town. But it was also so so wonderful. Most of my friends at this wedding I've known for five years. Which is crazy, if you ask me, that it's already been five years since I started college. But anyway. Despite the fact that I only really got to spend a handful of hours with most of these folks, the day reminded me of how much I truly love them. And despite the fact that I haven't seen most of them since either homecoming in October, or since graduation more than a year ago, we could still sit around and talk just like when we were in Greenville. I'm not the best at regularly talking to people that aren't in the same place as me (oops), but maybe this weekend has made me a little more motivated. 
After the wedding, one of my Furman roomies helped me pack up my stuff and kept me company for the 7.5 hours from Nashville to Davidson. After some coffee and thrift store shopping the next morning, I drove her back to Greenville. I remember thinking, when I went to homecoming, that it was weird being in Greenville and not being a Furman student. It's still just as weird. But we got dinner in at my favorite Greenville restaurant, did some bowling, and had breakfast at another favorite eatery of mine. Then it was back to Davidson for me, where I've gotten to spend some time with high school friends, and I've even seen a couple camp folk. At some point I s'pose I should unpack and re-pack so I can leave on Tuesday. But that's besides the point.

The point is that all this hopping around and seeing all these different groups of friends is that I know some pretty stellar people. The friends I made in middle school, now we can go with our moms to trivia night at the wine room. The friends I made during those oh-so-important college years are still people I hold close to my heart, and the camp friends that gave me a faith community I didn't even know I needed will forever be a part of my life. Then here come the YAV friends, from Nashville and soon from New Orleans, that have transformed me even more. 

On my drive back from Greenville a Miranda Lambert song called "The House That Built Me" came on the playlist I was listening to (a year in Nashville'll do that to ya). If you haven't heard it: in it Miranda Lambert talks all about a childhood home and how she's trying to find herself again, there. I don't feel so much like I need to re-find myself in the five days I have left in Davidson (five days! AH!), but I do think that all of these places I've met my friends (and family) have a large part in who I am today. And whether or not I talk to all of those people on a regular basis, that fact will always be true. I really don't think all the rambling in the world could express how truly thankful I am for that. 

Thanks anyway, though, dear friends and family, for being the houses that built me. Let's stay friends, yeah?

Love,
Allison